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Friday, February 01, 2008

Advertisement for a Boyfriend

I have a boyfriend.
He is 4.5 years+ old.
We only met once a week,at the very most twice.
He isn't too romantic but he endures all my nonsenses and makes me laugh.
Still I don't feel in love sometimes.
Sometimes we are just like dating partners. We are just each other Saturday's companion.
This is NOT a complaint.

I feel that we are living in our own world. Our lives just don't inter-crossed each other's especially when he is working. I simply don't feel that we are a couple sometimes.
He is like so far away?And me...I left a part of me in my own world,locked.The rest of me? In my outter world, without him.

Anyhow...I wanted to put up an advertisement for a boyfriend.

Physique wise:
1)Tall guys are preferred.
2)Not necessarily to be well built but must have nice T shape shoulders.
3)A smile that will make my day bright, sets my heart flutters.
4)The ability that makes me miss him always.
5)Cute & boyish.
6)Well groomed. (Don't have to be bron good looking but at least have the efforts to self groom yourself. I dislike guys who think a T shirt & jeans will always look right, hair is just hair, teeth is just teeth etc. PLEASE! Make the effort to look right even if you are not a born David Beckham or whoever. And STOP looking like sloppy during dates be it first date, fifth date, hundred and tenth date or the millionth date.)

Character wise:
1)Independent
2)Strong & sensible
3)Understands me
4)Romantic & can always romance me with small lil' acts that makes a couple's day.
5)Able to take responsibility of a boyfriend. (Maybe I shall elaborate this later)
6)Trusting & forgiving.

Responsibility of a boyfriend:
To me, the most important part of this responsibility is NOT taking the relationship & the gal for granted.
No matter you are together for 1 day, 1 month, 1 year or 10 years, I think it is important that the boyfriend should never fail to:
-Make the gal feels love
-Tell the gal that he loves her
-Tell the gal she is beautiful
-Bring the gal out for movie, dinner, romantic spots(Without being ask to) and this is not necessarily a daily affair. Make a monthly and I don't think it is too much?

Of cos' what goes around has to come aroud~I'm sure given my current boyfriend would has his own list of what is wanted in his girlfriend.
So this is not directly a complaint shout out but merely my own desires.

I told Von that I wanna be in love.
I wanna be in love.
I wanne feel in love.
I don't being the lover in the relationship so long the guy I love does loves me.
I just wanna be with someone that I feel so crazy for.
I wanna have a relationship that's like in the movies,dramas.

I wanna be with Peter Pan.

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